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Doing good, quietly.

Anonymous kindness, generous habits, and why the best good works often go unnoticed by everyone except God.

Ashley Kays · 3 min read · The Blog / Faith & kindness

Good works without the spotlight

There is a special kind of joy in doing something kind that nobody ever traces back to you. Jesus encouraged exactly that.

“But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth: That thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret himself shall reward thee openly.”Matthew 6:3–4 (KJV)

Quiet goodness keeps our motives honest. It is not about the photo or the thank-you. It is about the person, and about God, who sees it all anyway.

Secret kindness ideas

  • Pay for the order of the car behind you, or quietly cover a stranger’s grocery shortfall.
  • Leave an encouraging, unsigned note for a teacher, nurse, or pastor.
  • Clear a neighbor’s walkway or bring their trash cans back in.
  • Pay off a school lunch balance through the school office.
  • Send a gift card anonymously to a family going through a hard season.
  • Leave a basket of snacks and cold water out for delivery drivers.
  • Make a handful of cheerful cards and drop them at a nursing home front desk.

Use what you have been given

Your gifts are part of how you do good. A baker can bake for someone. A designer can make a flyer for a food drive. An organizer can set up a meal train. Making something with your hands for someone else is a quiet way to say: you matter.

“As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.”1 Peter 4:10 (KJV)

What God asks is beautifully simple

“He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?”Micah 6:8 (KJV)
“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.”Ephesians 2:10 (KJV)

We were made for this. Doing good is not an extra on top of a busy life. It is part of what that life is for.

Ashley Kays
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